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This dude will pretty quickly state that he ‘‘doesn’t see colour, at all.’’ He’ll probably say that he’s into you because he has ‘‘grown’’ into this prejudice-free, land-of-the-free, gluten-free, buy-one-get-one-free guy who is just above all stereotypes and that he is so grateful that we’re in 2018 because your life is so great now.First of all, Tommy, I barely know you, what makes you think that because Obama completed two terms, my life is a daydream?After wrapping up my encounters, I’ve come up with a list: The 5 types of white guys you will date as a black girl. I told you, he doesn’t see colour, that’s it, it’s done. If you’ve done any research or studies in social issues, or if you’ve ever listened to a person of colour talk, you would know that colour blindness is not the solution to anything.On the contrary, it actually makes people of colour feel invalidated in their experiences and we don’t need that at all, mostly not in our romantic relationships.
Show less If you’re a brown girl who’s into guys, you probably know what I’ll be talking about here.It is not your job to take every problematic white puppy under your locks to make him understand the world. He doesn’t make uncomfortable jokes about your complexion, has NEVER touched your hair without your permission and never asked for it either.Jake is not a broken toy that you should fix, you’re busy and deserve better. After many Tinder matches, after many cringes at parties and a lot of dm's left on read, you finally found him. He tells you you look great in bright colours and that your hair is cute, mostly when it’s a little frizzy.He might make you feel special for a few seconds, but the key point here is that he will replace you in a heartbeat if a lighter girl comes around.You are an exception because in his mind, black women are unattractive.
Even if I wish they all had the social intelligence of Trevor Noah, most of them just don’t.